Relationship Status.....

Relationship Status: SINGLE PARIN

by: greneziur

Ok.

Maganda ka.

Matalino.

May career.

Ika nga ni Vice Ganda “Ikaw na ‘Te!”

Pero bakit sa dalawang libong FB male friends mo, isama mo pa ‘yung sa dating Friendster account mo, wala ni isa...

Uulitin ko: WALA NI ISANG LALAKI ang nagtangkang baguhin ang relationship status mo. Sumpa? Kulam? O baka dahil sa limang kadahilanan.

1) Closed-minded.

Pinanganak ka at nagaral para lamang sa doktor, abogado o engineer. Pwede na rin daw manager sa bangko o pulitiko sabi ng nanay mo. Naniniwala kang ang pag-aasawa ang magaahon sa everyday instant noodles na ulam mo. Hindi masama ang mangarap. Ang sabi nga, you deserve the best. Pero sa kakaantay mo sa doktor na pinapantasya mo, dumaan na pala ung nurse na prince charming mo.

Ano ka? Single parin!

2) High Standards.

Kung hindi mo naman kamukha si Angelina Jolie, walang dahilan para dapat kamukha ni Brad Pitt ang maging boyfriend mo. Relationships that last a long time are not based on physical attraction. Dahil sa panahon ngayon, lahat pwede na. Maputlang bampira sa mortal halimbawa. Oo nga at normal na ung ‘ideal guy’, but DON’T use this as a basis for rejecting people. Give everyone a chance to know them well. Sa kakataas mo ng standard,

Ano ka? Single parin!

3) Bitter.

Ampalaya. Ilang beses mo mang ipagsigawan ang ‘I love me, who needs men?” status, wa epek! Hindi nito maitatago ang katotohanan. Lahat naman tayo dumaan na dyan. Breakups. Broken-hearted. Pagpapakulam ng ex. Planong pag pigil huminga. Nagcross my heart hope to die na hindi na talaga maiinlove. But remember, not all guys are out to break your heart. Hindi mo makikita ang para sa’yo kung pilit mo pa ring sinisilip ang FB account ng ex mo. Let go. Sa kaka-unfriend, friend, unfriend.. friend mo sa kanya..

Ano ka ngayon? Single parin!

4) Desperate.

Ano kayang bagay sa maroon fushia pink with lavander na shoes? Ilang anak ang gusto mo? Maganda siguro ang baby powder stardust yellow para tiles sa kusina noh? Maniwala ka man o sa hindi, lahat ng lalaki hindi yan ang nasa isip sa FIRST CHAT ninyo. Ano ngayon kung malapit ka ng mawala sa kalendaryo? Ubos na lahat ng single batch mo. Ninang ka sa lahat ng anak ng mga kaedad mong pinsan. Relax. Be cool. Desperate women are the last thing a guy wants. Dahil habang iniisip mo kung ilang abay ang kukunin sa “future” wedding nyo, sumisibat na ang potential manliligaw mo.

Ano ka ngayon? Single parin!

5) Right Person.

Kung hindi ka sa apat na dahilan nabibilang, wag kang mabahala, eto ang para sayo: Sagot ng kaibigan mo at ng suki mong manghuhula sa Quiapo… DESTINY. Bawat kaldero may nakalaang takip. Finding the right person daw just happens when you least expect it. Bente ka man o kwarenta. ‘Yun ay kung ititigil mo ang kakaabang sa daily horoscope mo.

Wala dyan ang sagot kung bakit single ka parin!

Ayon sa msnbc.com,

“Single people may die younger, new study finds”…

Bago mo inumin yang sampung tabletang paracetamol na hawak mo at ilagay sa sobre yang suicide note na ginawa mo habang nasa trabaho ka, think about it. Baka nga naman nasa maling road ka lang.

Love moves in mysterious ways.

If it can happen to a lot of people, mangyayari din sa’yo.

Tips on Moving On

TIPS ON MOVING ON :

• Do not think or talk too much about it.

We all know that dwelling too much on a problem is not good. It is best to forget everything that has happened and focus on your future plans. The sooner you forget, the sooner you move on.

• Get busy

Do things that will divert your attention away the situation like joining new activities or starting a new hobby. The busier you become, the faster the you forget all the miseries. This is one of the best ways on how to get moving on after breakup.

• Keep your distance.

Avoid making any contacts with your ex. Make an extra effort to keep away and do not attempt any communications such as phone calls or emails. By failing to do so, you might have to start your healing process all over again.

• Accept the facts.

Your emotional wounds will heal faster if you deal with your breakup straight on. Crying is said to be one of the best things to do to let go of your misery. There is no point in lingering on the moments you had together. This is one of the most important ways on how to get moving on after a breakup.

• Wipe out the memories.

There are things in your house or room that will remind you of your ex. Discard anything that will give you any memories about your ex and avoid movies, songs or any television program that will remind you of him or her. Cleaning up will also leave you feeling refreshed and gives you the energy to start something new.

(Source: matabangstick)

Falling in love

Falling in love and love are two quiet different feeling. Falling in love can be either a flash of emotions or a first step towards love.

Falling in love is a strong instinctive attraction to the person of the other sex. In case it’s mutual and both lovers will work at their relationships one day that feeling can grow into love. Falling in love is crazy, it very physical, it’s when knees are getting weak and temperature rises, love is calm, comfortable and mental.

You have to do nothing to fall in love and often there’s either nothing you can do to stop falling in love. It’s very illogical: you suffer from splashes of emotions, doubts, can’t fully control yourself and it’s all because of a person you usually almost don’t know. When we fall in love nature shows all it’s power on us. Sometimes it even goes against our sense when we understand that we can’t expect nothing good from these relationships that it’s the wrong person but still can do nothing about ourselves.

Falling in love is the call of our sex but the object is instinctually chosen according to our ideals, dreams and etc although we may not realize it. We usually fall in love with the appearance of the person, with the way he/she walks, the way he/she talks. Sometimes we impute to our object of love some illusional, ideal qualities and the more we get to know that that person the less we fall for him or her. That’s when the feeling disappears eve faster than it appeared.

The more two persons get to know each other, the more comfortable they get the less sharp, bright and exciting the feeling gets. Some couples continue their relationships and get married in the end some fall apart. It’s reasonable to say that a second pair of slippers by the bed and one more toothbrush in the bathroom is the end of that crazy falling in love but it also can be the beginning of something more serious.

Different people fall in love more or less often than other. Some are switching partners enjoying crazy emotions which never turn with them into a real love.

Some may fall in love for a short time while having some permanent partner they love, this can even ruin some stable relationships. Some can claim to be in love with two people at the same time. These are usually two very different people so that one can’t choose which type is better but can neither afford to take both. In the center of love there’s always only one person.

We may call falling in love some kind of a temporary illness both mental and physical and won’t be very wrong. Some will say that it’s destructive, selfish, possessive, blind and give falling in love many other unpleasant definitions. But have those people ever been in love? Because if they have they would know that it differs from any other illness in on very essential way – it can be very pleasant. People nowadays often turn to antidepressants and drugs because it makes them feel better in the first case and makes them high in the second.

Falling in love is the most natural and the least harmless kind of doping. Yes, it’s not mural, it never looks in the future, in fact it has no future but it gives life some spirit of freshness and youthfulness.

source:http://peoplerelationships.syl.com/loverelationships/fallinginlove